Friday, February 24, 2012
“Choose life.” said Moses
We did when we chose to come to India and serve in Porur. We've found what Columbus
was looking for when he discovered the Americas , spices. The spices in the
food and the spice of Indian life.
It's hard to say “Farewell.” The
sweet faces and kindness showed to us will remain with us forever. Tonight we had a “Send Off Party” at SEAMS.
We were thouroughly entertained with songs and dances by the children. The
speakers Kay Kay purchased allowed us to all dance in the big hall and sing
again and again “Skinna Ma Rinky Dinky Dink, Skinna Ma Rinky Do, I love
you.” The Bunny
Hop was fun for all. Treats were provided and we left with hugs, smiles,
laughter and tears.
We finished the evening with a re-entery dinner of pizza from PizzaHut. We
feel we've been a good working team and have achieved our goals.
We welcome the new team and wish them well. We know they will appreciate
the wonderful hospitality and care provided by Stephen, Sheeba, Roshan, as well
as the wonderful food Rani prepares for them, the many erands and chores
Barnabus renders, and the miraculous driving of Stephen.
Farewell until we meet again.
Shirley
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Quote for the day: “All good things come to an end”
It is hard to believe that
our tour of service in India
is almost over, with only one day of “duties” remaining, as we left for our
respective jobs this morning – Cindy and Anita to teach at Grace and KK to
continue one-on-one English tutoring with Leah.
Shirley went with Dee to Assam Illam to meet Sister Stella of the order
of FSJ Franciscan Sisters of St. Joseph so she could tell her nun friends back
in L.A. about
their work here. She could not stay long
as she had to go to Grace. The little
ones were disappointed not to have another Auntie to play with.
The name of the game which
amused the other volunteers and delights the children is called the “Grab and
Fox game”. The leader pours imaginary
rice, curry and ghee into her cupped hand and then grinds them together using
her elbow as a pestle. The imaginary
mixture is then formed into little balls – are popped into the onlooker’s
mouths and are chewed with great gusto and smacking of lips. After the hand is cleaned it moves very
slowly up one child’s arm until it becomes faster and ends up tickling the
tummy. Stephen and Sheeba visited while the game was being played and Stephen
was able to videotape the whole thing.
In honor the the visit,
Sister Rose, the head of Assam Illam made a rare appearance. She has made a good recovery from a stroke
but still needs to rest. She expressed
her gratitude for the toothbrushes and toothpaste donated by Cindy. Sister Rose the fed the children their lunch
but had the children neatly lined up rather than in a constantly moving group.
While kids napped Sister
Stella taught me other Indian games
called “Chapati/Dillaybee” and “Knock the Door” to be played again
tomorrow. She also decided to teach me a
few words of Tamil to go with my one word “Nandri”. I can now say “Vanakkam - greetings (similar
to Namaste) and Tata (goodbye).
After a midday rest for all
except Shirley, we went to Seam and then on to a delicious meal at the same
restaurant where we shared our first dinner together as a team. Where did the time go?
Diane (Dee )
Wednesday, February 22,
2012
The purpose of life is the
life of purpose. - Anonymous
You finish breakfast? What
you have for breakfast? This seems to be the first question asked after
greeting someone in the morning. When I arrived at SEAMS this morning I was
asked this question by three people. Even Pastor wanted to know what I ate for
breakfast. Maybe this is small talk for the local people. Similar to when we
talk about the weather. There are so many customs and habits different from
ours here in India .
On the other hand, what seemed shocking and strange to us the first few days,
is now, after almost two weeks, the norm. How easily we humans adapt.
Not much construction going on at SEAMS today. The painters were painting the outside of the library today. They were high up on homemade ladders held together with twine. I instantly decided I had a horrible fear of heights. I spent my day picking up around the grounds and helping Laya prep vegetables for the meal she would be making for lunch. She then gave me a private cooking class as she prepared the lunch. All the while I was helping her with her English which seemed to improve before my eyes. Indian cooking class for English lessons, a fair and fun trade.
The library is coming along at a good pace.Tomorrow tile will be laid on the floor and the painting will continue. I wish the previous volunteers who have worked and sweated over the library project could see how far it has come. I won't see the finished product, but close to it.
After SEAMS this evening the team went to the local movie theatre to watch a Kollywood movie, "Monitor Lizard" It was hysterical. Very melodramatic with the actors breaking into song and dance for no apparent reason. Stephen andSheba
said it wasn't a very good movie, but we all found it very entertaining.
Off to bed with visions of Monitor Lizards in our heads!
KK
Not much construction going on at SEAMS today. The painters were painting the outside of the library today. They were high up on homemade ladders held together with twine. I instantly decided I had a horrible fear of heights. I spent my day picking up around the grounds and helping Laya prep vegetables for the meal she would be making for lunch. She then gave me a private cooking class as she prepared the lunch. All the while I was helping her with her English which seemed to improve before my eyes. Indian cooking class for English lessons, a fair and fun trade.
The library is coming along at a good pace.Tomorrow tile will be laid on the floor and the painting will continue. I wish the previous volunteers who have worked and sweated over the library project could see how far it has come. I won't see the finished product, but close to it.
After SEAMS this evening the team went to the local movie theatre to watch a Kollywood movie, "Monitor Lizard" It was hysterical. Very melodramatic with the actors breaking into song and dance for no apparent reason. Stephen and
Off to bed with visions of Monitor Lizards in our heads!
KK
Tuesday, February 21, 2012.
Quote: Today was a good
day...past Global volunteer
Time is now flying by...
It was nice to get away for
the weekend and experience another part of India . KK and I went to
Mahabalipuram on the coast of the Bay of Bengal and Anita and Dee went to Pondicherry , a bit
further south. Shirley stayed at the Guest House for some R & R. The car
ride was 1 1/2 hours and Steven arranged for a nice big car and safe driver.
The hotel was on the water and just steps from shopping, food and a relaxing
massage. The town was quaint and full of venders selling their wares and just a
walk away from one of the amazing UNESCO sights of ancient temples. Unfortunately,
the town is without power ten hours a day which makes it very difficult for
businesses to survive. At dinner, the lights went out and before we knew it,
our waiter had his mining light attached to his head. I would definitely
recommend the short trip.
At Grace school, the kids
and I are very well acquainted. I plan a short lesson the night before and can
usually measure the success by the smiles, repetition and begging for more.
Typically, we sing a few songs and a new favorite is Skid a marink. They laugh
and scream when I sing the part, "I love you". Now all of them know
the song and it's part of our daily routine at Grace and Seams.
Beginning week two, we were
assigned new children at SEAMS and they were a few years younger. There was
quite a difference in their academic skills yet they were able to keep up on
the games including ipad games.
KK bought some Iphone
speakers so we could play music and teach some songs to the children at SEAMS.
Most love to dance and some are familiar with several American songs. KK
downloaded show tunes, pop songs and kids educational songs. We all sang along
as we were playing endless games of snap and Bingo.
The highlight of the night
was a wonderful meal at Stevens parents house. They graciously welcomed us into
their home and served a delicious variety of traditional Indian food. A few of
the family members live on the same street and his brother Steven, our driver,
lives next door. The house was bustling with kids laughter and people coming
and going. This is also Steven and Sheba 's house. Following Indian
custom, Steven and Sheba
will live there and take care of the parents as he is the oldest son. You could
see and feel the love flowing from the house.
Long day and ready for
bed...
Cindy
Monday, January 20, 2012
Quote of the day: ‘Always
end the name of your child with a vowel,
so that when you yell the name will carry.”
Bill Cosby
A foggy morning, an unusual
condition according to Sheeba, as she and Stephen came back from taking Roshan
to school earlier this morning. By the time we got into Stephen’s car for the
ride to Grace School , there was just a slight
haze and when 10:15 came with the
morning break, I could see no more from the classroom’s window.
Upon arrival at school,
Cindy and I were asked to go to the principal’s office instead of heading
directly to our rooms. Principal Esther came in, another chair, presumably for
her was brought in—she was looking through a notebook and I wondered if we had
done anything amiss from last week. But it seems there had been a
miscommunication and the delay had to do with either one or both our classrooms
was not yet ready, and Esther had no idea why we were sitting in her father’s
office! I collected chalk and the duster (eraser) and walked next door where I
was greeted by the 5th graders looking rather snazzy in Monday’s
regulation all white uniforms with navy and white ties.
All three classes talked
about memory and what they thought it meant. When I wrote ‘remembering things’
on the board it instantly resonated. I explained the memory game we would be
playing in order for them to discover their capabilities. The only variable was
the number of objects I put out for each group. I started with ten items for
the 5ths, six for the 4ths and five items foe the 3rd graders. Items
were: a pen, pencil, crayon,lipstick, clock (my travel alarm), scissors (travel
kind), torch, pencil sharpener, paper clip and eraser. Supposedly without
talking they came up and just looked at each of the things dispkayed for about
two minutes then returned to their seats and wrote down each of the things they
saw. Spellings weren’t a problem—draw the item if they felt more confident in
recalling. Afterwards we went over the list of objects they saw, did communal
spelling for each as well as discussing the scissors that got a delighted seal of approval as they saw how it can be
folded in half! The boys seemed more interested in the tube of lipstick while
one girl, in particular smiled encouragingly as I applied a quick ‘schmeer’!
Before the memory game
exercise we did in each class, I was most careful explaining what we were
doing, tried my best to make certain I was understood—so it is still mystifying
why only two students, fifth grade girls hardly participated while everyone
else in all classes evidently understood—did they just not want to take part?
They were inspecting those ten items but went back to their seats and neither
listed nor drew pictures,,although they did do some drawing having nothing to
do with todays class assignment. I did not admonish either girl but was clearly puzzled as they could easily see.
One of the girls had come to class without her dazzling smile all during the
class so something else had to be on her mind. I did ask her as the class was
leaving if she felt alright—that she clearly understood as I received a small
smile from her.Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.
A surprise: Simon Says is a
roaring success with all three grades being slightly more competitive amongst
the fourth graders—who knew? The third graders were adorable watching as I
speeded up!
The thirds were rather
exasperated with my poor attempt in
making the ‘correct’ spider hand movement for ‘Eensy-Weensy Spider’ as we sang
the song. They in turn had their
‘teachable moment’ with me—literally taking my hands and willing my fingers to
copy theirs-more homework for me again before I dare come to class wanting to
sing that song again. However they seemingly liked my moves with the line in
the song ‘…..and dried up all the water” so I, too, had a teachable moment.
Rani, our Porur Julia Child
demonstrated how she prepared a sought-after Volunteer favorite, cabbage
porial. We had been asked at dinner last night for those dishes that had been
most appreciated—the answers were fast in being announced! Certainly a huge
vote of confidence of contented palates. Nobody, including this welter-weight with the troubled palate (when
it comes to the spices used here) has gone hungry. Between the various hot
dishes served morning, noon and night plus the wonderful fruits always on the
table: no stomach growling has been heard.
A new week with our kids at
SEAMS. Before starting, Sheeba asked if I enjoyed coconut water—do I ever!
Coconuts were being sold outside the gates..minutes later, a delicious drink
was handed to me.One sip through its straw brought back so many memories to
other exotic locales around the world where I had also taken sips.
I met with two new students
this week. Ugendhran is a charming boy of ten and I am thinking on the shy
side, but perhaps by day two or three I will be proven wrong. I tried engaging
him in talk about school and whether he enjoys books and/or reading. Speaking
very slowly he didn’t quite understand the question until I showed him ‘Sammy
the Seal’ paer ot the ‘I Can Read’
series. He brightened considerably and when I asked him if he could read
the words of the title or of the series, it was evident he could not and
instead said that yes, he’d like to hear the story. I suggested he call out any
words on the page as we slowly read on-he did not.
Time flew by because all at
once Stephen sent in Praveen, a fifteen year old lad with a simply dynamite
smile. He is coming towards the end of the ninth grade—facing Public Exams by
the end of his year which ends in April. With May the month of school being
out, he returns in June in the tenth grade if he passes all the exams: Tamil I
and II, English, Social Studies, Chemistry, Math, Science and others I believe
I forgot to write down. He is interested in studying Computer in a college and
eventually first work here in India
before travelling to America.Where in America ? Doesn’t know, just America ?
Time quickly passed once
again when it was time to come back for dinner. The cabbage dish was very tasty
and my gratitude to Sheeba when she purposely left out possibly the most
important spice keeping me in mind. I am positive the others around the table
missed the added zip they all have come to enjoy immensely. The dill with red
onion will be a must I go home with. I adore yogurt and love it with dill and
cucumbers..never thought of the onion—scallions, why of course—red onions even
better!
I have the distinct feeling
this week will zoom by with so many things on our cumulative list of must do
activities.
So as I write my last
journal let me thank Stephen and Sheeba both for their warm welcome into their
home as well as into their lives. For me, without a doubt their hospitality,
has been the most outstanding memory I carry home with me. This second Indian
project was an experience I will never forget—with Stephen and Sheeba being the
icing on the cake. Many, many than you’s for your considerations.
Anita