Millinium Development Goals Achieved by this team from September 20th - September 24th.

25 Hours of class room instruction in conversational English and computer skills by 2 volunteers and 25 Hours of preparation time

20 Hours of childcare by 2 volunteer

2 Children's Home's and over 65 students impacted

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September 19, 2010


"Your talent is God's gift to you. What you with it is your gift back to God." (Leo Buscaglia)

A busy day. Worked on individual and team goals. Bill and Dustin identified two team goals: (1) to better understand India and (2) to share talents with children. Of the characteristics of an effective team, patience and flexibility stand out. We are savoring fine meals so simply prepared by Rani. For team effectiveness they focused on flexibility and patience. Dustin was full of questions, as was Bill, about the work they would be doing. Stephen was patient, taking questions as he worked through the orientation. The challenges will be in doing service in areas that are completely new such as teaching English. Stephen explained that at SEAMS, the emphasis was to be on conversational English with the older children. Stephen suggested that Dustin, with his background in computers, would be of great help as all the children at SEAMS will be interested.

After lunch Dustin and Bill set out for a walk to learn more about the neighborhood and get a flavor for Porur. They strolled some back streets and then took on a major road with its highlights of colorful attire and ornamental architecture. On the other hand they fought against the wild traffic and the visual assault of construction and trash. There is a big adjustment to make as they compared national and local priorities. For a break from the heat and sun, they entered a clothing store, much to the surprise and wonder of the staff, which followed them closely around the store. Stephen had told us there were no parks but we found a virtual oasis behind a wall where two interviews were taking place. Bill thought it was a political party compound; later Stephen was not so sure!!!

At six, Stephen took Bill and Dustin to SEAMS to meet the Pastor Arul and the children. They were greeted with smiles and hugs and handshakes by the boys but the girls stayed away. Each child came and introduced themselves as Dustin and Bill sat rather awkwardly in the front of the all purpose room. The children sang two rhythmic pieces and the team got a tour of the new dormitory of which their guides seemed quite proud. Then the fun began with a mingling with the children. Bill started an arm wrestling contest and after both arms wore out he recruited Dustin. Of course, this was only for the boys as the girls stayed in a tight group, talking and watching. The team will be looking forward to engaging with the girls when they return for evening service.

For dinner Stephen took the team to a restaurant located off the main drag with a host of wait staff and many choices of Indian and Chinese inspired food. Dustin was an old hand at ordering but Bill looked to Stephen for help! All the dishes were spicy and flavorful and we knew we were in India. It was delightful to have ice cream for dessert to cool off the mouth.

It was an exhausting day. Back at the guest house, Stephen took his leave and Dustin and Bill worked on the laptops until both batteries gave up! That was as good an excuse as any to go to bed…

Bill

September 20, 2010

"Every person’s life is a fairy tale written by God's fingers." (Hans Christian Anderson)

Today we engaged the children at the Assisi Home. A wonderful new facility is home to many children and also serves as a day care center. The school age children are at school so Dustin and Bill set about helping the day care children with the alphabet and numbers. Several of the children know the alphabet when we sing but must think hard when shown flash cards out of order. Bill tried to introduce parts of the body using the vowels and parts that started with the vowel. He cannot report on the success. The children were young and have short attention spans. It was necessary to change activities often and Bill and Dustin will be looking out for signs that the tasks need to be changed. Also, because we are there the two hours before lunch, the children get restless and hungry in the middle of the work. We when shifted into a fun game of "juice banana" with chasing around the circle of children. It was fun watching the smaller children trying to figure out what was going on. The teacher then switched to songs with Bill jumping in to lead the Hokey Pokey, Itsy Bitsy Spider and Old MacDonald. Great fun but the team was ready for lunch and a nap before an evening at SEAMS.

We lunched on puffy bread and lentils and chutney; then Dustin and Bill retired for some needed rest. Tonight back to SEAMS to work with older children on computer (Dustin) and Bill on English. Dustin got going quickly and soon found widely disparate skills in typing and understanding the commands, but he had a lively audience and plowed ahead. Bill worked with one then two boys on conversational skills and filled in with grammar and sentence structure. After a break, Bill took up reading Charlotte's Web with two delightful girls. He helped with pronunciation and phrasing. It went remarkably well with many laughs and gestures.

Rani served up two kinds of rice, raw cucumber, carrot and tomatoes, okra and delicate fish. It was a welcome and relaxing dinner. We discussed the day and the difficulty of organizing work for the children at Assissi. The evenings at SEAMS seem to be the easier task…

Bill

September 21, 2010

Defeat is not the worst of failures. Not to have tried is the true failure.
(George Edward Woodberry)

Bill and I woke up a little earlier today to meet our Yoga instructor Selva Ganapathy. The three of us headed up to the terrace to get started with our first yoga session. Bill and I are first timers so Selva was asked to go easy on us. We began with some breathing exercises to get us relaxed and in the mood then we moved on to some stretches and yoga poses. Bill seemed to do great with the exception of the heat. I on the other hand can barely touch my toes so I did my best to get through each pose. This is our fourth day here and we were both over due for some much needed exercise. We asked Selva to return tomorrow so we can continue our yoga sessions.

After Yoga we headed right down stairs for breakfast because Rani had another wonderful meal prepared for us. This morning we had some new company, we were joined by Stephens’s wife Sheba and son Roshan. We all enjoyed Rani's eggs, noodles, and of course chutney.

After breakfast Bill and I got ready and prepared for our day at Assisi Home. This time I put a little more thought into how I was going to entertain the little 2 to 4 year olds. When we arrived the kids were happy to see us again. This time they didn't seem to be as shy. Bill and I separated a few of the kids in to two sides of the room and gave it all we had. I started with what I call "Dustin Says" and the GV teaching guide calls it "Total Physical Response Activity" The kids seemed to enjoy it. Then we moved right into our ABC's, 123's, Colors, Sight words, and anything else I could pull out of my bag. When they lost focus (remember they are 2 to 4 yrs old) I would get them to sign a song. We finished the session with coloring. I traced some pictures on blank sheets of paper because I didn’t have any coloring books and the kids colored them in. This was a trick Bill had showed me that he used on another trip. We switched up the kids and I repeated the same routine as I did with the first group. One of the girls in the last session was with me on the first day so she was very helpful in getting the other children involved.

Stephen and the Teacher Jessie brought all the kids together so Bill and I could finish with some games and songs like we did the day before. This time Bill and I were ready to take the lead with all 20 or so kids. We started with "ring around the rosy." They all loved that one. Then we moved on the all the other greats like The Hokey Pokey, Itsy bitsy Spider, ABC song, etc. Before you know it’s time to go. (All the kids waved and said their goodbyes and we even got swarmed with a bunch of hugs on the way out. With only two days at Assisi, it seemed like Bill and I were part of the crew.

We headed back to the guest house, where we once again were blown away from Rani's cooking. We had Beets, Vegetable Curry, and Chicken Curry (which I didn't eat) and of course rice.

Stephan, Bill and I headed off to SEAMS for our afternoon session. It started of pretty easy. Bill and I worked with 2 younger kids each and started off with the basics- ABC's, 123's, and sight words that we then used in sentences. Once the other older kids got back from school we headed in the great room where Bill and I separated in 2 different learning sessions just like we've done the day before. Bill worked with several different children reading and understanding poetry and I continued where I left off yesterday working with Microsoft Word on the computers. We started out by typing from a book, and then the kids would have to go and read though what they had just typed. After we spent enough time typing and reading, I showed each kid how to spell check, format, change fonts and color.

Today was another amazing day for me. At Assisi I'm called "uncle" and SEAMS I'm "brother". Even though it’s only been two days I really feel I'm connecting with most of the kids…

Dustin

September 22, 2010

“Every experience is a paradox in that it means to be absolute, and yet is relative; in that it somehow always goes beyond itself and yet never escapes itself.” (T. S. Eliot)

Yoga to start for Dustin and Bill and were introduced to new positions. Patience, patience as the Assissi. Dustin and Bill teamed up to change the routine for their assigned pupils. The differences between the developments can at times be frustrating. For example, today, I had a happy boy, always with a smile and eager to respond to the alphabet and numbers. I had less luck with shapes and colors. Next time was a somewhat wary sweet girl who just seemed bored or uncomprehending or simply too tired to participate. Of course, she woke up for "Juice bananas" and Ring Around the Rosie. We tried simple jigsaw puzzles with limited success. The young boy I mentioned eventually got the idea but the girl was mystified. Oh, well, just keep trying until you find something that clicks. So far, each day I have moved to coloring, no child seems to have any sense of form and just scribbles. They are fascinated with tracing a hand but do not yet have the concept of coloring in the lines. We were lucky to share part of the ride back with Sister Rosa, a remarkable woman. Stephen provided us the names of the people we have been working with (or near, since there has no instruction or advice from anyone except Stephen about what we should be doing or any hints about what works) and found curious the name of Sister Matilda. Mystery solved: she grew up in a convent, was married to Henry I, ruler of Germany, and returned to service of her Lord after his death. She is Patron Saint of Mis-behaving children and Patron saint of girls.

The evening session went smoothly. Dustin attracts a crowd with the laptops. Tonight he took some pictures with his spanking new blue Canon and had the students load the pictures. It was some fun and the pictures were great. Bill met with Suganya and Shanthi for continued with the reading of Charlotte’s Web. Suganya doubles her pronunciation at the end of certain words and worked on correcting the pronunciation. She does well reading. Shanthi tends to read words but is working on phrasing; she does not double endings, which is quite interesting. Earlier today they had an accounting exam and we worked together on a spread sheet for accounting entries in English and Tamil. Stephen helped explain what I wanted and then the triple threat of Bill, Suganya and Shanthi jumped in. When the wood smoke began to drift into the room, Bill spread out the Scrabble materials he had assembled and made and explained the game. While doing so, he realized how complex the game must see, particularly the concept of using an existing letter without ending up with a non-English word from adjacent letters. Suganya worked at it but did not grasp the concept. We will see if she is challenged to learn. Shanthi seemed to get the idea but needed some help. It is a difficult exercise in a second language but will be of help with written English. Bill then sat with the girls and talked about their families and India in general.

Stephen excused Rani for the night and we ordered in pizza. It went well with the Sprite for Dustin and the Coke for Stephen and the juice for Bill, which he picked up when he and Dustin made a quick trip to the Supermarket. They also brought home some peanut butter, a must have food item for the world to spin correctly on its axis…

Bill

September 23, 2010

“All great things are only a number of small things that have carefully been collected together.” - Anonymous

Today Bill and I woke up early so we can head out to the market. Stephan said it was one of the largest markets in Asia and I believe him. This place was insane. When we arrive there were just people coming and going. It reminded me of the NY stock market trading floor expect they were trading flowers, fruits and veggies. We started in the flower section and for the first time all week my sinus were cleared. Bill and I were taken back by the wonderful aroma coming from all the different flowers. Everywhere you looked there was every kind of flower. Stephan led us through a narrow passage way that passed multiple vendors selling all different fresh flowers by weight. He led us outside where we crossed over to another area, this was the fruit section. The funny thing is the first sets of Apples were from Washington State. I think this was the only western style fruit in the whole place but something to point out. I’ve only been here a few days but I started to recognize a lot of the local fruit (Sweet Lime, Custard Apples, etc.) Eventually we reached the last area which was the Vegetable section. By this time I was ready to go. Even though we weren’t there for shopping it was an amazing thing to see. All the vendors were friendly and Bill and I got a lot of photos. It was worth getting up early to see.

At Assisi it was back to business. Teaching English and when Bill and I got tired we moved to singing for other activities. When the kids tired out we switched up and started back from square one. We have one more day with these little ones so let’s see what tomorrow brings.

Back at the guest house I prepared for my evening at SEAM’s. Tonight I will try to teach the older ones how to create power point presentations. Now I’m no expert, so I brushed up on my skills before we headed out. I’m glad I did because even though it was basic, the kids really loved it. I used pictures from the day before and inserted them into the presentation. First I worked with Hari while I put some of the kids on the computers and started them with the basics. Hari caught on quick and before you know it he was putting his own twist on his presentation. Time ran out so he wants to finish it up tomorrow. After Hari was done I worked the Suganya & Santi. They were a little shy at first but together we winded up putting together a nice presentation for Bill.

Although challenging at times, today was a success! Rani prepared 3 wonderful meals and Stephan fielded all of my questions...

Dustin

September 24, 2010

The last day of the first week. How far we have come: we got into a good routine at Assissi changing tasks, taking breaks. We both had new children first and that presented a challenge. One little girl with Bill was vocal and active, moving her chair first up and then back and then pulling the other child with her. Vocal does not mean she responded to flash cards, which she didn’t. We started the day with a “Happy Birthday” to a new four-year old. This is a moment to savor. We took a break and enjoyed a discussion with Sister Rose and Stephen about hearing aids, finding a mate and marriage. There are still arranged marriages in India and I imagine that group would be horrified with “hook ups” and co-habitating before marriage, in some cases, is even considered.

We then took on more children. Bill got his prize pupil who worked at the jigsaw puzzle but had no time for ABCs, which is in contrast to the prior day when he asked for ABCs. Then it was time for an arousing round of “Juice Banana” with Dustin joining and Bill recording the event. This was a fitting end to our week with the day care at Assissi.

Rani put out a smorgasbord for lunch and we dug in after needed showers. We had a good discussion with Stephen about the driving pattern in India, an oxymoron if there ever was one when describing traffic in India. The USA is tame in comparison. Stephen pointed out that the traffic is always moving ahead, no one worries about what is behind them, and the various conveyances are not traveling that fast.

At SEAMS, Dustin set up the boys with laptops and Bill worked on developing sentence structure and vocabulary. His two charges worked hard on the sentences but got the hang of the vocabulary task of listing words beginning with letter “A”.

Dustin and Bill are looking forward to their weekend away…

Bill

Millinium Development Goals Achieved by this team from July 18- July 31

245 Hours of class room instruction in conversational English and computer skills by 9 volunteers and 245  Hours of preparation time

60 Hours of childcare by 3 volunteer

95  Hours of labor towards the construction of Stage 2 of the Dormitories at Seams

2 Schools, 2 Children's Home and over 300 students impacted

 

Sunday, July 18, 2010


Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.


Buddha

Well, it’s Sunday, 10:30 p.m. and team 92 is safely back in the guesthouse. Makese, Jen, and Donyale have returned from their weekend on the houseboat in Kerela. Nate, Alexa, Alex, Amanda, Ashley, and I are back from our trip down the coast to Pondicherry, Kanchipurim, and Mamalapurm. We’re all rested, refreshed and ready to begin our second week of service tomorrow. There will be some changes in our routine because Alexa and Amanda will be starting their work At St. Joseph’s, teaching English to a group of young women who plan to become nuns. Past volunteers have reported that this is a fun and rewarding assignment and they’re looking forward to it.

Reflecting back on our first week, we’ve each face the challenge that is adjusting to life in India. Even though this is my forth trip to India with Global, I’ve experienced my own culture shock. Almost everything about my experience here is different from my life in L.A. Different sounds and smells, the language, the heat, mosquitoes, dust, rain, and cows are all part of my life here in India. My adjustment involves embracing these differences that I have come to love and enjoy. I am so happy to be back here with Stephen and his family and his support staff. I am so grateful to be working with Ester and Elizabeth, the teachers at Grace School, And I am blessed to experience the joy of teaching the wonderful children at Grace and SEAM’s. I look forward to the weeks ahead with the anticipation that new experiences will deepen my understanding and my love of India. I am looking forward to more laughs and good times with team 92.


George

Monday, July 21st, 2010

I lay my head down on Sunday night thinking to myself “What a fun weekend I had” The team split, Donyell, Makese, & Jen spent the weekend on a house boat while I spent the weekend with Alexa, George, Amanda, Nate, Ashley We visited Pondicherry, and a few temples that I will not try and attempt to rename. We went through the temples and just about every carving in every temple a story was explained. I must say if we did have such a knowledgeable guide, I defiantly would not find the temples as interesting. Towards the close of our weekend, We went to a delicious restaurant where I had the best ice cream sundae in my 16 years of dessert eating. A Humpty Dumpty defiantly an appropriate name for an unforgettable dessert. Normally on long car rides, I find myself waking up to my destination, but this time I tried to stay awake. It was very interesting to see how everyday life is so different from what I am used to. I am beginning to realize my mom knows what she is talking about when she says I should be more “grateful.” When we returned to the guesthouse, I went to bed thinking, “Damn tomorrow I have construction.” Only to find that it was actually a very easy day. I realized throughout the day that this would be my last Monday in India. To be honest I will not miss the labor aspect of this trip, but I will miss is the chanting of the kids from S.E.A.M.S “shoulders, please, brotha, one,” and my personal favorite “powda” [which I believe is gum]. I can never see their faces when I lift them on my shoulders, but from the smiles on other people’s faces I can tell that the little boy or girl on my shoulders is laughing or smiling. It feels good to know I am making some sort of difference in a less fortunate child’s life whether it is long term or short term.

There is no exercise better for the heart then reaching down and lifting people up

- John Andrew Holmes Jr.

Alex

Tuesday, July 20th, 2010

Team #92 sets off walking to Grace School kissed by the sparse raindrops that welcome our trip to Queens Land. I am feeling a little homesick but, I release the feelings knowing this is going to be an amazing day. Arriving at Grace School, I'm greeted by unfamiliar faces it is my first time here. Then come the children ready and anticipating all that the world can avail today. Before boarding the bright yellow bus that waits, we are blessed with prayers of protection.

9:30 Indian and Bermuda time, spectators watch as the bus backs up to depart. I scan the crowded space listening and observing the familiar sounds of excitement and recognize the birthday tune the children sing. All this reminds me of our field trips at school. Then there’s a change, something different, the music comes on and dancing heightens the party ride. With music there’s rhythm and with rhythm flows dance –I also tap to the memorable song “Meow” we heard on the house boat.

50 minutes later, 10:20 to be exact we pull into the gates of Queens Land – It says, “The great amusement park”. There were buses parked and a few groups stand waiting as we step off the bus. I find out later that many schools had the same great plans.

I don’t hear the usual sounds of a typical theme park and we are greeted by miniature clowns and a raging bull. Since we are some of the first to arrive, I was fond of the idea that there will be no long lines to wait in.
Let the fun begin… the children are ready and they take in what they can. Makese and I ride a few of the rides with a little push and pull, but Ashley, Nate, Amanda, Alexa, Alex and George have no problems. I guess to the US this is a breeze. Judging from the smiles, laughter and shouts of joy, everyone is having a splendid time.

Around 1:00 we enjoy Ranie’s packed lunch which is still hot and then head off to the water park. This was a unique experience observed by most of us, but carried out by George and Ashley. You actually swim in your clothes (no choice) and the woman and children are barricaded from the men in the pool by a wire fence. Besides this, the play is the same, splashing, running/walking standing under waterfalls and slides in Queens Water Paradise.

I think the constant drizzling rain has given us reason to go back, with a confirmed two woman vote the group is ready to return home so we trudge through the wet and muddy grounds towards the bus. Last roll call "present miss" at 5 o'clock we press on through traffic and arrive at Grace School about 5:45, say a quick goodbye and jump into auto rickshaws...I swear Buskar made it back in record time about one minute flat weaving through vehicles, animals and people and on a rainy day.

7:00 PM supper is American Style in India. Everyone savored the pizza from Pizza Hot, boy was it delicious!According to Ashley, the best meal she had had since her time in Indian.... Apparently it stood true for many, ALL the boxes were emptied and everyone was stuffed - "food coma" had set in.
Despite the rain, the temperature was manageable and the day was engaging and full of adventure. I can say I experienced entertainment in India, but even more, I was able to connect with the children from Grace School. This was my first time meeting them and although I was not able to bond with any particular child, I was touched by their smiles that grew into laughter and blessed by hearts overflowing with joy. In all the unfamiliar aspects of visiting India, I can say this is a very familiar part of life - the smile, laughter and joy of a child which enriches your life. This trip was for them and about them. I'm thankful for smiles. They take me all the way around the world and back home again. I think of the advert I saw on a bus while on my way to Assisi Illam that said, “When your heart is happy it shows.” Well, today I experience happy hearts in abundance!

My thought for the day is:

S.M.I.L.E. Smile - It's the Silent Melody Influencing Lives Everywhere!

Donyale

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010


We’re at about our halfway point of this trip. To put it bluntly halfway points suck. Sure, we’vall adjusted to the heat (mostly), the cold showers, and our new favorite pastime, zapping mosquitoes, but the novelty of the first few days has worn off and routine has settled in. By nextweek, it’ll be all tears and cries of “this is our last time doing (fill in the blank with something mundane),” but this week, it’s somehow become the daily grind. This makes tonight’s activity all the more special. Stephen invited us into the home he shares with his wife, son and parents. Sheeba, his wife who we have all grown so fond of, prepared us a special dinner with the help of his mother and please trust me when I say, our autorickshaws went a ot slower on the way home, sagging with our added weight. As delicious as the food was, that wasn’t the best part of the night. Tonight I felt at home in India in a way I haven’t since I arrived here. Being included in Stephen’s family, sharing in their rituals and seeing how they live their lives, it may \sound hyperbolic to say so, but it was an honor. I left with a better understanding of daily

Indian life and fullness in my heart that trumped the one in my belly. I think it’s fair to say that this was the best halfway point I’ve ever experienced and I couldn’t be more excited to see what the next week and a half brings.

thought...

"Everyone thinks of changing the world but no one thinks of changing


himself." - Leo Tolstoy

Jen

Thursday, 22nd July, 2010

We're here. We're in our groove. We've gotten our routine down and our days just flow. Our day begins as normal with breakfast and morning meeting. Stephen reviews with the team the goals we've set and the characteristics of an effective team and I'm pleased to report that all our goals are being achieved and we indeed have an effective team. We depart for our various duties and return home for lunch.

After lunch we separate again, this time Alex and Nate get some much needed rest from construction, while Donyale pushes on. Amanda and Alexa for St. Joseph's School. Jen and I leave for Grace, while somewhere not too far from here George and Ashley are about to receive their ayurevedic massages.
Jen and I read, sing and Duck, Duck Goose through our time at Grace. The bell rings and we close our day with prayer and a song in Tamil that I don't understand, but love to hear. Jen and I wait in the hot smoldering sun. Completely dehydrated, faint and weak, on our very last leg barely able to continue standing, when finally our van turns the corner 15 minutes past his usual prompt 3:30 pick up. Truthfully, Jen and I were just fine and I doubt that we were waiting even 15 minutes, I just added that part for Amanda and Alexa's benefit, seeing as they were the reason that Stephen wasn't there as we exited the gate. They informed us that they were held back longer than expected because a nun had prepared pizza for them as a surprise to show appreciation for their time with them.

Continuing with our routine we returned back home to the guest house and relaxed while waiting to return to our afternoon session at Seams. George and Ashley returned from their massage completely satisfied. At SEAMS Ashley connected two skipping ropes and we turned the ropes and had a blast watching the kids light up to go next. Watching them try to find the rhythm of the rope reminded me all too well of my first awkward skipping experiences. I think of George asking "Why did we ever stop skipping?"

6:30 rolls around all too soon and the team returns home for dinner and a restful night.


The thought for the day is : What you do speaks so loud that I can't hear what you are saying. Ralph Emerson

Makese

Friday, July 23, 2010

It's almost the end of the second week, and what a week it's been! Shopping on Monday, pizza on Thursday, dinner at Stephen's on Wednesday, relaxing evening on Thursday, and a wonderful dinner out on Friday. Alexa and I also began teaching the soon-to-be nuns at St. Joesph's this week and we love it! While our mornings at St. Joseph's are challenging with the elementary kids, we enjoy our afternoons with the young ladies and feel that we are actually teaching them and they are learning. We also said goodbye to Alex last night and while the team and children will surely miss him, we know we must carry on with another week of work without him. While I'm sure we are all at least a little anxious to get home to the comforts and family we left behind, I can't help but think about how much I don't want to say my own goodbyes this time next week.

Amanda

Sunday July 25, 2010 Team #92

On Saturday afternoon just after lunch, a group of boys from the neighborhood stopped by simply because they wanted to meet us and shake our hands. I have never felt so special in my entire life. These kids actually made a plan to come over just to meet me? That can't be right.



They were so excited and a little shy about meeting us and when George brought out his camera, it was adorable;. the boys started smoothing their hair out and posing for photos. It still amazes me how excited the kids get to see themselves in a photo when we show them the picture on the digital camera screen. Because it is so common for us, we take things like this for granted. We can just pop our iPod in our ears, throw in an episode of Dora for our babysitting charges, or take 1000 pictures a day if we want to. But for these kids, these simple pleasures might as well be Disney World. That is how excited they get about them.

We worked Saturday at various assignments so we could have Monday off (as many of our group went on a trip/safari in a forest). Amanda and I elected to stay home and enjoy a lazy weekend like we would if we were home. As I worked at SEAM's in the morning yesterday I looked around and it truly sunk in how much I am going to miss these kids. And I honestly believe they will miss us. They are still excited every time we arrive and always eager for attention, playing, and learning. (And Dora of course when George brings along his lap top.) For these three weeks we have been important to them and they have been important to us. We have touched their lives and they have touched ours. My work here has made me feel like I have made an important difference in the lives of the children with whom I have worked. I cannot help but wonder what would happen to these kids if Global Volunteers had to stop sending volunteers to Chennai for some reason. What would become of them if SEAMs had to close? Would they wind up begging on the streets? Would they wind up as child laborers? It breaks my heart to even think about it.

Saying goodbye on Friday is going to be a very teary event (for me at least.) I hate goodbyes. A part of me is homesick for my home and family but another, larger part of me will miss being here and volunteering, watching the kids learn and grow.

For me at least, this experience was better than Disney World.

Tuesday, July 27th, 2010:
Makese, Donyale, George, Ashley, Stephen, Sheeba, Roshin, and I arrived at Chennai Central Train Station in Chennai, India around 7:30 am from our weekend trip at the palace in Mysore and the forest safari in Mudumali.
When we arrived at the guesthouse, Jen, Amanda, and Alexa greeted us. Then, wediscussedour adventures to the team at breakfast. After breakfast, Makese and Jen went to Asisi, and Alexaand Amanda went to St. Joseph’s. George, Ashley, Donyale, and I were feeling a little under the weather, so we stayed behind to get some much-needed rest. The same occurred in the afternoon except for Jen and Makese went to Grace School instead of Asisi.

For the evening, we all had enough rest to go to SEAMS Children home. At SEAMS,Ashley and I felt we made a lot of progress with the small group of kids we had today. At the end of the visit, we gave the kids in our group their own pencils for doing such a great job. After SEAMS, Ashleyand I realized how much progress we are making with the children, and it makes the 3 weeks well worththe stay.

Sadly, this is our last week of stay in Chennai, India. Although we all love working with the children and teaching them English, I believe most of us are feeling a little homesick, at least I am. This stay in India has opened my eyes and mind to a whole new perspective of the world.
Message of the Day: “People have different ambitions for their fulfillment of


happiness. For most it’s money, for some it’s cars, but for few it’s as simple


as improving another’s life.” –Nathan Najdek

Millinium Development Goals Achieved by this team from July 11- June 17;

125 Hours of class room instruction in conversational English and computer skills by 9 volunteers and 125 Hours of preparation time

30 Hours of childcare by 3 volunteer

60 Hours of labor towards the construction of Stage 2 of the Dormitories at Seams

2 Schools, 2 Children's Home and over 300 students impacted

Sunday, July 11, 2010

When we go to the theater together, my mom makes fun of my weak applause. No matter how enthusiastic I am about a performance, I tend to respond in golf claps. I don't know why, lazy hands, perhaps. But today, at our first visit to SEAM (Southeastern Asia Missionary), a children's home where we'll be working, as thirty some children serenaded us with a welcome song; I found my applause was loud and prevalent. It wasn't purposeful; it just came out of me. Why are they

singing for us? What did I do? I bought some weather-appropriate attire, got a visa, took two really long plane trips and showed up. Big deal. But the joy these kids feel for something so small, for my purple nail polish or for having the chance to sing Hokey Pokey with a beloved return volunteer, is amazing. I know we're here to help them with their English and teach them, but I already feel I've learned something in return.

Jen

Monday, July 12, 2010

Team #92 Volunteering Day 1

7:20 my eyes slowly peel open and I scramble to get ready for 7:30 yoga on the terrace. Once there I greet Donyale, Jen, and our yoga instructor. We breathe and stretch, breathe and stretch and invite in a calm spirit to approach a busy and exciting first day.

A half hour passes and we then join the others for our morning meeting. We're all excited finally to begin what we came here for: to serve, to experience, to teach, to grow, and to connect. We review the schedule and its changes, Jen reads her journal, Stephen wishes us a great day and escorts us by van to our various destinations: George, Alex, Nate, and Ashley at Grace School; Amanda and Alexa leave for St. Joseph's, and Donyale, Jen and myself set our for Asisi Ilam with Sheba to introduce us and get us settled in.

We exit the van and enter the gate where we see the faces of these precious lives we flew all this way to meet. We're introduced to Sister Rose and Sister Matilda and we sit Indian style on the floor as we \learn more about the kids of this day care/ orphanage. Finally we get to meet our groups. We read books, sing songs, and we teach each other. We teach them English. They teach us the importance of time, the depth and purity of simple unadorned love.

Time ticks and we trek on back to the guest house for lunch. The groups slowly stream in. We eat lunch and back to our respective assignments. This time I enter Grace school. I was reunited with friends that I had made last summer.

On the ride home from Grace I thought about the things I'd read about volunteering in India. One statement that stood out was that India is not for the faint of heart. I can see how this can be true, but I'd like to say that India is for anyone with a heart. The warmth, acceptance, and excitement of the people and children we work with stirs the heart to sing. The first time I volunteered here they were just amazingly beautiful people. This second time they feel like my family. I felt as though I was coming home when I first spotted Sheba and Stephen, at the airport on this trip. And again when I met up with George the next day, and when I saw all the familiar faces I bonded with last year.

We finished up our evening with SEAMS. You can read all the journals of the other volunteers. SEAMS speaks for itself. If ever you want to see what you're purpose in the lives of others can be, please come. Come to India.

Makese

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

For me, this trip has exemplified the main reason I want to be a teacher... to make a difference. For the students here in India, simply learning English gives them an upper-hand and a chance at a better livelihood. Being part of this learning experience has proven to be an honor and pleasure, even in just the two days we have been going to our assigned schools. Seeing the student's genuine and smiling faces as we walk in the classroom reassures us that we are not only appreciated but also welcomed. These students have a refreshing passion and desire for learning and, thankfully, could care less if you can't carry a tune. It's clear that in the coming weeks we will not only build strong connections to these students but also to our teammates, we will grow and learn as individuals, we will serve those who need it the most, and we will experience once in a lifetime opportunities. I look forward to the coming days and the long lasting memories that I will continue to make as we continue on with this extraordinary experience.

Amanda

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Thought for the day:

"I don't care how poor a man is, if he has a family he is rich," Dan Wilcox and Thad Mumford from M*A*S*H

When we think of family we most often think about those to whom we are related. However, being in India has made me realize (perhaps more than I have ever realized before) that defining the word family is not so easy to do. Family includes the people with whom you share a special bond or connection. They are the people who are there for you, support you, include you, and look out for you. Family can be anyone.

Some might look at the kids in the orphanages where we work here and say that they have no family. But that's not true. They have a family--their family is everyone at the home with them and the kind, caring and selfless adults who take care of them.

This broader view of the concept of family became particularly evident when we were invited to be a part of Stephen and Sheeba's son's birthday celebrations at Assisi Illam and Seam's Children's home. Upon observing both places it became evident that they saw Stephen, Sheeba, and Roshan as family. It was very touching to be a part of such a celebration. Seam's had even decorated for his birthday complete with balloons, streamers and other colorful ornaments. Songs were song, prayers were said, and cake was cut, all in honor of Roshan and the long and happy life ahead of him. It was a lot of fun and it made me (and I'm sure all of us) feel special to have been included in Stephen and Sheeba's family.

Not only do we grow as people upon this adventure and experience but our family grows as well, as now, for at least these three weeks, we 9 volunteers are family, helping, supporting, including and looking out for each other and the students we are teaching.

Alexa

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Thought for the day: “Your attitude determines your altitude.”

Today was the fifth official day of our program and it finally feels like the team has become comfortable and at home in India. Some of us have been here once, some multiple times and for the majority this is our first encounter with India and the vastly different Indian culture, yet theses five days have been an adjustment period for all.

Each experience has transformed from new and uncertain to new and joyously fun. When we first arrived Stephen told us to go with the flow, well for my mildly control freak side I thought this may be difficult and was shocked today when I realized it only took me five days to transform into a happier person.

I saw this carefree attitude in the children we are here to help the most today. They always have such a positive attitude about life that has become simply contagious to all of the members of the team. It is clear I have gained so much more than I will give here, from new found friends to a newfound perspective on life; I became sure today that choosing India was the best decision I’ve ever made.

Ashley

Friday, July 16, 2010

Message of the Day: "The saying is 'a picture is worth a 1000 words', but a
special moment will last a lifetime."

Today was our last work day of the first week. The day started off with the usual delicious Indian breakfast and today’s agendas. Between Alex and I (andvDonyale in the afternoon), our agenda is to help with construction at SEAMS.

Every morning we are greeted by few of the children at SEAMS. These children arevvery excited to see us, as they always want Alex and I to pick them up and twirl them around like we do when we visit in the evening. Unfortunately, this is not our objective for the morning. Our objective currently is to lay a sand-base onthe roof of the children’s home so later cement can be poured on top to keeprain from being absorbed into the roof.

Our construction host, a slender, averaged height Indian man, does not speak any English. Although there is a language barrier between us, we know what needs to be done. He points to one area where we start and points in the other direction to where he wants the sand to be placed. As we work, the children play and sometimes give us a hand with our task. At the end of work, the children and our construction host would disembark us with a wave and a smile. This makes us feel great, for that we know we are helping the children live in a better place.

The evening visit at SEAMS was a play day, which was to have fun with the kidsand interact with them in games. Although we were not teaching, they were still learning. And I love how they are always excited to see us every evening. I knowit makes the team feel welcomed, and we are glad we can put a smile on every one of their faces. These next couple will be a lasting memory for them and us.

Nathan

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.
Buddha

Well, it’s Sunday, 10:30 p.m. and team 92 is safely back in the guesthouse. Makese, Jen, and Donyale have returned from their weekend on the houseboat in Kerela. Nate, Alexa, Alex, Amanda, Ashley, and I are back from our trip down the coast to Pondicherry, Kanchipurim, and Mamalapurm. We’re all rested, refreshed and ready to begin our second week of service tomorrow. There will be some changes in our routine because Alexa and Amanda will be starting their work At St. Joseph’s, teaching English to a group of young women who plan to become nuns. Past volunteers have reported that this is a fun and rewarding assignment and they’re looking forward to it.

Reflecting back on our first week, we’ve each face the challenge that is adjusting to life in India. Even though this is my forth trip to India with Global, I’ve experienced my own culture shock. Almost everything about my experience here is different from my life in L.A. Different sounds and smells, the language, the heat, mosquitoes, dust, rain, and cows are all part of my life here in India. My adjustment involves embracing these differences that I have come to love and enjoy. I am so happy to be back here with Stephen and his family and his support staff. I am so grateful to be working with Ester and Elizabeth, the teachers at Grace School, And I am blessed to experience the joy of teaching the wonderful children at Grace and SEAM’s. I look forward to the weeks ahead with the anticipation that new experiences will deepen my understanding and my love of India. I am looking forward to more laughs and good times with team 92.

George

Millinium Development Goals Achieved by this team from June 21 - June 25;


65 Hours of class room instruction in conversational English and computer skills by 7 volunteers and 65 Hours of preparation time

20 Hours of childcare by 2 volunteer

100 Hours of labor towards the construction of Stage 2 of the Dormitories at Seams

2 Schools, 2 Children's Home and over 400 students impactedTuesday, June 29th

Tuesday, 29th June

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.” -Plato

Today, we went on with our usual routines-- Jeff and Joey went to construction in the morning, while Andy joined Cathy at St. Josephs to take on the dreaded kindergardeners. Jeremy joined Bridget and I at Assisi Illam to play with the 3 year olds and attempt to teach them English. Although some are doing physical labor and some are playing or teaching children, both are equally exhausting. The kids somehow drain our energy just as quickly as working in the hot sun! After coming home for a great lunch, we headed back out- with Andy joining Jeff for construction and Cathie going to work with the future nuns. Joey, Jeremy, Bridget, and I went to Grace School to help teach English to the different classes. Bridget and I bought lots of henna at a local store, as prices in the US are around $7 a tube compared to only 10 rupees here! One of the teachers at Grace School kindly offered to henna our hands, and I was the first to get mine done! We headed over to Seams to play with the children for an hour, and then finished off our evening with a lovely dinner at Stephens house. It was great getting to meet Stephen's whole family and enjoying a delicious meal with them. This was the perfect way to end a great day!


Zoe
 

 Wednesday, June 30th

"To help all created things, that is the measure of all our responsibility; to be helped by all, that is the measure of our hope" -Gerald Vann

After more than a week we are starting to ge the hang of things. In the morning my mom and dad went to St. Joseph's School to teach kinder gardeners and first standard. Jeremy, Joey, and i went to Seam's to do construction, and Bridget and Zoe went to Assisi Illam. At seam's we had to carry sand from the roof down to the first floor after the week before we carried it up to the roof. After lunch we all went to different places for a shortened time because we went to the government emporium to shop for gifts. Cathie went back to St. Joseph's to work with the future nuns on English speaking and writing skills, my Dad and I went to construction to help with cementing the walls, Bridget, Zoe and Joey went to Grace School.

Since it was Jeremy's last day, we went to Seam's in the evening so the children could say good bye to him. They made hime a beautiful card and sang him a song. We then went to a restaurant to have the last dinner with the team of 7. Jeremy was a great member of the team and he will be missed. We all came back to the guest house and played Spades.

 Andy

Thursday, July 1st

"I would rather be able to appreciate things I can not have than to have things I am not able to appreciate"Elbert Hubbard

It is Thursday of week two (7/1) and we are already missing Jeremy's energy and enthusiasm. Bridget and Zoe went to Assisi Illam to work with the preschoolers and Andy and I went back to St. Joseph to work with 5th and 2nd standard. We all noticed the "natives are getting restless". In 5 standard, Andy and I played math Bingo and had the students write descriptions of pictures. It was nice to see the students clap for each other when I told them they had done a good job on their writing.

We were surprised to find that Rani made us a lunch with beef! She included the delicious cabbage and tomoto rice which we all enjoyed a lot.
For the afternoon sessions, Andy, Bridget and Zoe headed to Grace School, while I went to St. Joseph's. The young women in the convent were very interested in a story we read about The Statue of Liberty (and a discussion about the 4th of July), as well as a lesson on common English phrases. It would be fun to hear these proper young ladies say "Hey! What's up?" the next time I come in.

We took our evening trip to SEAMS where the students were busy studying. With books and gadgets in tow, we shared as much English as we could while enjoying the company of these happy, energetic children. I am grateful for all of the teenagers on our team who are happy to lift, swing an flip the kids to their hearts content. As dusk came, the mosquitos swarmed, and I was glad to retreat to the guest house for a quiet night.
Cathie Ricketts

Millinium Development Goals Achieved by this team from June 21 - June 25;
65 Hours of class room instruction in conversational English and computer skills by 7 volunteers and 65 Hours of preparation time.

20 Hours of childcare by 2 volunteer

100 Hours of labor towards the construction of Stage 2 of the Dormitories at Seams
2 Schools, 2 Children's Home and over 400 students impacted

Sunday, 20th June


Today was the actual first day with the complete team. All of us had the chance to get first impressions of the team members, meet each other and get to know a little about our lives. We sat all together in the dining room with Stephen, our wonderful host, and commenced orienteering which is the first phase of the program: we get to know the sites we are going to work on, the place we will live in and the rules we will have to respect.

We then had lunch followed by the second phase which is fixing the team goals and characteristics!

After that we all had a few hours to ourselves before going to meet all of those wonderful, enthusiastic, energetic, funny and loving kids which live at Seams children home. I am happy to say that this teem has a majority of young volunteers, which fitted in immediately with the children playing games and simply having fun.

The impression I got of this team is that we all have different backgrounds, cultures and ways of being but one thing we do have in common, this experience! I am 100 percent sure that we will all have a blast and get on fine together so its all for the best!!

Jeremy

Monday, 21st June

"Little things done over and over again add up to making a differenceToday was our first day of real volunteer work. We began our day with a yoga lesson on the terrace of our guest house. About 6 of the 10 in our group participated. After the yoga fun and group breakfast a group of us went to a local orphanage called Assisi Illam that functions as a day care during the morning while the kids who live there are at school. We played with about thirty 3 year olds who spoke no English. Some of our other team members went to teach children English and do construction on Seams children’s home. Then we came back for lunch,  Afterwards we split up again, some visiting a nearby private school to teach English and grammar to 4th and 5th graders, and others working more with construction. One of our volunteers even practiced English with young girls hoping to become nuns. After this, we had some rest time until we went to visit Seams orphanage to play with the kids which we'll do every evening. Though exhausting, it is apparent that our simple presence means the world to these children, which makes it 100% worth it in the end.

in a big way." -Byron Pulsifer




Zoe

Tuesday, 22nd June

"If children have the ability to ignore all odds and percentages, then maybe we can learn from them. When you think about it, what other choice is there but to hope? We have two options, medically and emotionally: give up, or Fight Like Hell." -Lance Armstrong

It's the end of day 3 (our 2nd full day of working) and I'm writing my journal entry while sitting in bed under the mosquito net. The light in our room just went out, but it should come back on soon. Until then, the light from my iPod will have to do.


It's been another long and exhausting day. The ladies worked with the kids in the schools. Cathie spent the day at St. Joseph's School where one of the teachers was a "no-show", so they put all 62 kindergardeners in one room and wished her luck! Bridget and Zoe were honing their teaching skills at Grace School and Assisi Illam. The 4 guys spent the day at the construction site at SEAMs. While it was 95 degrees outside again, it felt hotter today since the sun was shining bright. I drank 4 liters of water (one gallon), but I'm convinced I sweat 2 gallons out. We spent the day hauling sand again using the traditional Indian methods. We sifted it first through a screen and then put about 20 pounds worth in a large metal bowl, then carried them on our head our around to the side of the building, up the stairs and into the soon to be dorm rooms. By the way, these were the same rooms we took sand out of yesterday and hauled it up to the roof (did I mention it was 95 degrees, sunny, calm, with high humidity?!?) We all feel like we are now 2" shorter than when we started and we're noticing that our heads are becoming flat on top. To make matters worse, we had 3 random Indian men pull up chairs and watch us work while they sat in the shade (likely making fun of us).

I know if you're reading this from afar you must be asking: "Why in the world would anyone pay for an experience like this?". I would simply answer by saying, "I wouldn't trade places with anyone else on the planet today". Every time I felt like I was going to collapse, I would look up and see one of the children smiling at me. These are kids who literally have nothing. They sleep on the floors in the hallways. Some have parents, most do not. I'll bet most of us couldn't stand to hear the challenges they have faced in their short lives, but you would never know it while spending time with them. They are always smiling, laughing, and playing with each other. They are respectful and always look out for each other. I'll bet they have fewer wants than children who have everything. For us, several weeks of hard labor or impossible teaching conditions is a small price to pay to improve the lives of these wonderful children.

Jeff

Wednesday, 23rd June

A German proverb: "He, who teaches children, learns more than they do."

Our third workday began early as we decided to forgo our 7:30 yoga for a 7:00 trip to the flower, fruit and vegetable market. After seeing the amazing array of beautiful flowers and unusual and plentiful fruits and vegetables, we returned in time for our breakfast and morning meeting. Today was a school holiday for the children, so our work assignments for some were a bit different. Andy decided to take a break from construction to join Zoe and Bridget at Assisi Illam to play with the children. I joined the construction team with Jeff, Joey and Jeremy. I wanted to see if they were really carrying loads of sand on their heads. We did do our share of sifting and carrying sand, but jobs were more varied today. We moved bricks and got to try our hand at slapping cement on the brick walls of the roof. Our mentor made it look easy, but after several tries with most of the cement landing on the ground, I decided that I was creating more work and decided to be the gopher instead. Joey actually got the hang of it and managed to cover one wall with cement.


We had a delicious chicken curry lunch back at the guest house, then headed out for our afternoon assignments. I went to my normal afternoon session at St. Josephs to work with the young ladies who are studying to become nuns. I used a deck of cards to play a game to get them conversing in English which they really enjoyed. They are so kind and always try to feed me before I leave, but unfortunately I have to scoot out as Stephen is waiting on me so that he can round up the rest of the group. The construction workers, joined by Zoe, continued at SEAMS with sand sifting and carrying as well as cementing the roof while everyone else was able to work with and play with the children. We returned for our early evening session at SEAMS, all of us dragging a bit, to find the children with even more energy and enthusiasm than normal. We were armed with more balls, books, stickers, and cameras, which kept the children busy and happy. Stephen taught us a game to play with the children which involved a lot of running and tackling - perfect for the kids, exhausting for us! The kids love our cameras and frequently ask to take ONE picture, then run off and snap as many pictures as they can. All in all a good time was had by all.

We headed out to a restaurant where we enjoyed a delicious dinner. Some of us were able to watch some World Cup action on TVs. while others watched Joey fall asleep at the table.

Cathie

Thursday, 24th June

“The value of man resides in what he gives and not in what he is capable of receiving” -Albert Einstein

In the morning I slept in through breakfast. After breakfast I went to Assisi Illam and played with the kids. They are always so energetic and happy to see us. After Assisi Illam we had lunch and went to Seam's for 3 hours. At Seam's some of us helped build the new dorms while other helped the kids with some of their school work. After helping the kids we played Kabadi, Cricket, and Coco. While we were playing kabadi, Jeremy said that the losing team should have to do 10 push-ups which everyone thought was a good idea because everyone thought that their team was going to win. My team ended up winning and the other team had to do 10 push-ups. After Seam's we went to the textile, gold, and silver markets. There we bought inexpensive jewelry, textiles, and other items. We got home from the markets at around 9 in the evening and had dinner.
Andy

Friday, 25th June

We can do no great things, only small things with great love. ~Mother Teresa
Today was the last day of our first week of working. In the morning Cathie and I went to Assisi Illam and worked with the orphans that were off of school . We brought tons of coloring supplies and they absolutley loved it, almost as much as they love to be picked up and spun around. Zoe and the boys worked on construction at SEAMS and in the past week have made progress and friends with the local workers. After lunch the whole team joined forces and we took all of the children at Assisi Illam to a park and childrens zoo and then to the beach. We took our regular car and a "bus" which was more of a van and stuffed about twice as many people as could comfortably fit into each. The children loved to see the animals and dragged us from one animal to the next until we reached the playground. We left the park and headed to the beach, as soon as the beach was in sight the children began screaming with excitment. Everyone only went in thr water about ankle deep but some how every kid managed to become soaked head to toe, and we hadn't done much better.Right as we were all about to head back to the cars wiht most of the kids in fresh dry outfits it began pouring rain. We all rain to the cars but we stil became even more soaked and sandy than before. We headed home the bus just as crowded as ever in rush hour traffic and in the pouring rain all soaked and sandy. The bus driver played music videos and the kids danced and sang and kept entertained. By the end of the ride half of the kids had fell asleep on our laps. Overall it was a great day. It was nice to see how happy the kids were about going on the outing and to spend more time with them than normal. Our first week was successful and the challenges seem easier each day. I can already tell we will miss each kid and its only our first week.
 
Bridget
 

Saturday, 26th June
 
"He does not live in vain; who employs his wealth, his thought, and his speech to advance the good of others." -Hindu Proverb
 
After a long and fulfilling week of work (and play) we earned our first free day. We started with breakfast at 7 am and left the guest house around 8:00 on our way to Pondicherry. We were all very excited when we discovered the bus had good a/c and reclining seats! The trip was fairly typical with lots of crazy traffic and horn beeping. We arrived in Kanchipuram to visit 4 Hindu temples. We got a nice surprise in the first temple when we saw 3 elephants being painted with decorations. When we went to take pictures the trainer invited us in to sit on one of the elephants. What a fun experience. The temples were very interesting and we all learned a lot about the Hindu beliefs.  After a tasty lunch we hopped back on the bus and rode to Pondicherry. After checking into our hotel we took a nice walk down the beach and had a wonderful dinner (or in the case of "Bottomless", 3 dinners!). Then it was back to the hotel to watch the US vs Ghana in the World Cup.


I've noticed that after a week in India I've grown accustomed to so many of the sites that shocked me when I first arrived. I came here with the goal of learning more about the Indian culture. I am happy to report that not only do I feel I've accomplished that goal but, thanks to Stephen, I now better understand and appreciate the Indian culture and way of life far better than I imagined I could.

Jeff

Millinium Development Goals Achieved by this team from March 29 - April 2;

110 Hours of class room instruction in conversational English and computer skills by 6 volunteers and 110 Hours of preparation time.

50 Hours of childcare by 2 volunteer

20 Hours of health care provided to the poor at the hospital by 2 volunteers

2 Schools, 2 Children's Home, an hospital and over 400 students impacted

Monday – 29, March 2010.


So goes my second crack at journal writing.

Our time in Chennai is drawing to a close with the coming end of this week. Our dear friends Nikki, Nita and Laura left us on Friday and Saturday and have all reached home safely. Jana, Sue Ellen, Katie and Stephen jetted off to Mysore for a weekend trip while Claudia, Joelle and myself stayed behind to hold down the fort. Monday was an easy day at Assisi for Joelle and myself and Claudia at Grace school following the lazy sunday. We chose to give Rani the afternoon off and decided to go out for dinner following showing a movie at seams in the evening.

More importantly, when deciding how long I was going to stay in this program, it was widely regarded as the three week experience being the most gratifying as the best part of the relationships develop in that third week; I think im beginning to see the light. Being the youngest one in my family, I never really needed to socialize with anyone younger than me. I guess what im trying to say i've always been really bad with kids, and my first week here showed it. However, im beginning to be able to relate to the kids at Assisi and seams more and more with every day, and am growing more comfortable with them and playing with them everyday. I look forward to spending more time with the kids this week and helping them to develop their own skills while im doing the same for myself.

Reflecting back on my time in Chennai, I can solidly say I'm a different person after my time here. The lessons learned through the simple sight of a childs appreciation for your presence when it seems like they have nothing else in their life. Learning how the lack of basic health care and nutrition knowledge have plagued an entire portion of the population and the simple steps that can be taken to begin to solve these problems. Learning the dedication and enthusiasm that nursing students must show to their education in order to pass their studies, and the dedication that regular students must show to their studies in order to pass their examinations. I've not only seen the resolve that people show in order to better their lives, but also the resolve that some put into bettering the lives of others. The efforts of Dr. Sr. Rexline through the St. Thomas Hospital and its associated projects (community clinics, Assisi Illam, Old Age homes) have demonstrated just how much one person can do when their efforts are true to their desires. This woman is a model for not just women over the world, but humanity itself as just how much one person can do.

Being the youngest member of this team (and the only male for that fact), I expected to receive my fair share of teasing during the course of the program, and so I have. However, the relationships ive formed and the knowledge I've gained through this experience make it one of the defining moments of my life to this date. Experiences are what you make of them, and the incredible environment of India was only amplified by the wonderful company that we all have kept during this experience. We bonded together to achieve our stated goals and have accomplished them with the authority and enthusiasm that only a well organized and eager team can. Through trips taken for leisure and those taken as a part of work done here, we have acted incredibly as a unit in accomplishing our goals. As a closing, cheers to Global Volunteers and Stephen for enabling us to partake in this incredible journey with their assistance.

I've found a favorite song of mine that appropriately sums up my thoughts of this trip for more than a few reasons:

"Every mile a memory"

Cheers Chennai, thanks for helping make me into who I want to be.

- Aneesh

March 30, 2010

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the
world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”


Margaret Mead

As the climate of South India heats up for the peak of summer (April, May, June), the temperatures rise about one degree daily. It feels much like my greenhouse in Alaska when the door has been closed on an unusually hot day. With schools closing soon, uniformed children hurry home to study for fimal exams. Just as in the U.S., they are excited and restless.

Our team is dwindling. Four have departed, six remain. The weekend was quiet at the guest house, as three travelled to Mysore to visit a Palace, see the forest, wild animals, and sleep in a large treehouse. The 12 hour train ride was well worth it. As volunteers alternately depart, the farewells have brought a celebratory air of treats, another dance party, and even a movie night at the poorest of the orphanages, SEAM's, (Southeast Asian Ministries). The kids were as excited to receive two oranges (!) as they were to see the animated “Shark Tale”. They sat on the floor to watch the computer screen on the table. It was a more intimate evening, the kids more calm, laughing together at times, yawning at others. It felt like a long hug. For me, the teaching at Grace school has taken on more of a rhythm. It helps to know the names of each student and their levels of learning. I am more organized.

The kids like the familiarity of our routine. For example, in 5th grade, we go over
the spelling/vocabulary words from the previous day. Then we do worksheets:
questions about a story, or an exercise to learn about articles, plurals, or
collective nouns. All grades write a sentence in their journals about what they
learned, and are rewarded by a sticker for their journals, and a word puzzle as
they leave the classroom.When the driver picks us up after meeting with the
teachers, Esther has been known to wave him away and say “three more minutes”. I have to admit we used that for arm wrestling Monday.

The children at SEAM's are easier for me to manage as they come to know me better. By changing my expectations I have become more effective. The 'hood around the guesthouse has become familiar, even bordering on charming. Today I took pictures of my haunts: the post office, the copy shop with Mahalalakshmi standing in the door, Fancy Star store, and the supermarket. What originally felt like a death march to the orphanage now is a familiar stroll. Right, left, right, left, straight to the gate by the wagon of coconuts. I wrack my brain to think of useful gifts I could send from my home in Alaska. But the children don't need and have no use for small gifts. The greatest need is for money to Global Volunteers, which is then directed to the sites that Stephen, our leader, chooses. Believe me, you can trust that he will carefully prioritize to meet the needs of the neediest. The children at SEAM's once slept in one large room on a concrete floor. Now they are on bunks, four to a room. There are only bunks in these rooms. Soon the older boys will have a new dormitory, thanks to Global Volunteers. The latest project that I know of will be a garden on that rooftop.

This is a dream realized for me. It can be that for you, too.

Claudia

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

"The soul is healed by being with children" – Fyodor Dostoevsky

A Love Story Chapter Three

Every true love story has a good beginning, a good middle and a good end. A good love story has it cast of characters. And although the end has yet to be written I can tell you of the beginning and early chapters of a big love, a grand love – unexpected and the kind to heal my soul.

First let me start by thanking a good team – every story needs good supporting characters. There were the "youngn's" of the team: Laura who provided amusement to all "only to Laura could this happen!" We weren't laughing at you – we were laughing near you!

Aneesh: the consumate woman's man! Willing to be a shirpa for the gals, holding purses and packages....maybe the only male – but a good one at that!

And then there is Katie – able to share this experience with someone I love was for me the golden nugget of the trip!....You brought much laughter and energy to the team. I love that "my kids" are now "our kids!".

And then there are the nurses: Jana, and SueEllen, I was glad for your watchful eye, suggestions that the SEAMS children received "health inventories" and that you had an opportunity to be in the presence of Dr. Sr. Rexline....my guess is some of her golden magic dust has drifted and now fallen on you too. SueEllen, thanks for your push to continue the important building project at SEAMS. Since I was not one to sift sand, lift windows or carry bricks – my graditude extends to all those who did. Jana – Remember how the Tin Man from Oz asked for a heart? My dear – Sometimes we don't always see what we have – and I assure you – you do have heart. You are lovely people and of good cheer.

To Joan and Claudia, for your excellent planning and teaching at Grace school – Claudia, one of my favorite memories of this trip was the morning I spent at the flower market with you – talking about parents and politics and our lives back home. I am convinced had we lived in the same city we surely would have found each other by now.

To Niki, I have got to hand it to you – India is not an easy place to try out your travel wings and passport – therefore I stand before you in utter amazement. Then, to endure as you did – sickness when giving a million dollars to feel better being impossible, you endured with grace and fortitude that I so rarely see in others these days. I hope you take a lesson in this, because I do believe we learn the most about ourself when the situation seems the worse. Your kindness and gentle spirit is what I will remember most....and I do so hope that your wings are not clipped and that one day, and not in the distant future you will use that passport again.

And to Nita, my partner at Assisi.....I was so glad to have shared the "taming of the little beasts" with you. That you enjoyed the rhythm of the day as much as I only made it more special for me.

Watch out, George is coming your way with those half-crooked, half-puckered lips! Another favorite memory is "girl talk" with Sr. Rose, Sheeba, you and I. One of those truly unguarded moments with Sr. Rose. Many thanks partner....

And finally, I, "Camp Mom" round out the team, as the old-timer, hopefully helping others to learn the ropes with her "bag of tricks!" Just remember the most important ingredient to pack in your bag is your heart!

And now, the main characters of this story:

There of course is the Handsome king – Raja......Better known as Stephen.....and unlike the king in so many other stories – power-driven, one to beat down the weary and demand more and more – our good king Raja is benevolent, kind and patient "Oh yeah!" and a good servant – "We'll check it out!" He is a protector of his people and a shepherd to the poor....he is the best kind of king -

Of course the good king needs a beautiful wife and Sheeba fits the role perfectly. She is so sweet and generous, thoughtful and light-spirited, and yet her best quality is being known to everyone as friend.

Then, there is the "spoiled" prince – Roshan......but he is as cute as can be, so his faults are easily overlooked. It takes a smart and clever boy to overthrow the throne. I'm sure the King and

Queen will have control restored in short order.

There are the villagers of SEAMS – with their governor – the wise and good Pastor Arul....who has served many in his care for years and years. The villagers who truly have so little, still are willing to share what seems to never run short – their smiles, their laughter, and plentiful hugs and kisses.

And then there is the Town of Assisi Illam, blessed and protected by St. Frances, Sr. Rose and Sr. Virgin. The 20 villagers are placed in their loving care as they've turned paupers into princes and princesses. The day care short citizens add to their number (50) during the morning and early afternoon and receive excellent instruction from the fair and powerful, stick weilding Jesse.....whose stick is just enough of a threat to keep all children safe and engaged.

Now that you are on the edge of your seat waiting to hear the depth and breadth of this love story, I will tell you the truth – no one but the two who live it can ever really know the extent of their love – but here are the facts that can be shared: A palm-reader foretold Aunty's trip to India. She then landed in the far-off place called Chennai. On the first day of her first year at the castle Assisi she met a glum and isolated soul whose name she learned to be Augustine. As the three weeks flew by, the two became inseparable as Augustine crawled all over Aunty's heart. The memory of leaving that first year – both with tear-stained faces haunted her for a whole year until she knew that she could only live if only to fulfill the promise of holding her "Little Heart" just one more time.

As plans were made for Joelle Aunty's second visit to Chennai, she learned the news....Augustine was no longer at the castle.....he had returned to his homeland – far, far away. As the message was sent throughout the Kingdom.....of Aunty's impending return......a major search for one little boy in a billion haystack pursued. Found him they did! A drive to Pondicherry and a meeting with the Mother and uncle took place. The good mother allowed me a private audience with her son and it was indeed a most happy event, and one to remembered until memory is no longer useful. But what to do? The desire was so great to see Augustine succeed in life – she turned to the King and begged mercy for this child to put him in a good school near the castle.....and so it came to be.

On this my third trip to Chennai – I have found the healing of my soul – the healing of a year of loss because of one, small mischiveous "Monkey Boy".....who again became mine and I his. He is even smarter and funnier than I remembered, but I am mostly struck by how happy he is – darkness and sadness vanished , replaced by brightness and light. Holding him is my great joy. Even so – I think how can anyone love him more than I? But the story of the "true mother" and King Solomon reminds me that this woman was willing to give her child to another rather than seeing the child cut in two. If I were Augustine's true mother could I give over the care of this sweet boy to another? I doubt that I could, even if I knew it would be better for his life. Therefore, the real love story here is of a mother's love of sacrafice so as to provide her child with opportunities to live and grow and learn. This is big love!

This love story shall continue because there are still other stories in lives yet to be written. I know there will always be a tug between the hearts of the fab five (Sylvia, Sophia, Jasmine, George and John) (plus one....Augustine - my little heart) and my own.

The end of my story has yet to be written....I do think true love stories last beyond this world and into the next. Yet here I sit with my heart pierced not knowing when the next chapters will be written. The words of Garnet Rogers ring so true for me:

The days go slow, the years they flee -
The future's not for us to see,
So for today, I'll let you be...
What I'd give to have you here with me,
What I'd give to have you here with me...

I will dream of you being with me – India, a land and people and especially one little boy who heals my soul.

Joelle

Thursday, 1 April 2010.
All great achievements require time.


Maya Angelou

Today marked the last day for team members Joelle and Katie. The day started by Aneesh, Katie, and I attending our last morning yoga session. At the end of the session, Katie asked our yoga teacher if he would perform his favorite yoga pose for a picture. We were amazed as he stood on his head, then crossed his legs. Perhaps one day we can achieve this, also – or not as the case may be.

After our morning cold shower and breakfast of ramen noodles and hard boiled eggs, team members migrated to their work assignments. Joelle, Aneesh, and Jana went to Assissi Illam, Katie and Claudia went to Grace Nursery and Primary School, and I stayed behind to work on the growth charts for the kids at SEAM. Work assignments are haphazard this week as this is the week before Easter and schools are going on holiday.

Claudia had ordered a cake (from our local copy shop of all places) for a lunch
time treat for the students at Grace School. Aneesh and Jana left Assisi early,
picked up the cake, and took it to the school, where the teachers were anxious to meet Aneesh as they thought he looked like Obama in the brief glances they had of him. However, once Aneesh arrived, the teachers became shy and needed encouragement to talk with him. Katie arrived back at the guest house after the party with the palm of her hand decorated with henna by one of the teachers. Henna is carefully painted on the palms of the hands; after an hour or two, the henna paste is washed off and the resulting skin under the paste remains dyed and lasts for a week or two. Unmarried women can only have the palm of their hands decorated. Married women can also have the tops of their hands painted.

This afternoon, Katie and Joelle went to Assisi to say their last farewells to the
children. Katie was especially honored to be chosen to be the godmother of little
Jasmine and we all felt fortunate to be able to attend Jasmine's baptism yesterday. I'm sure Katie savored her last visit with Jasmine today before traveling back to Minnesota this evening. While Katie and Joelle went to Assisi, Aneesh, Jana and I went to SEAM. (Claudia stayed behind to rest after the party at Grace School as she is still recovering from an upper respiratory infection.) At SEAM, while Aneesh and Jana attended to the students' myriad cuts and scrapes, I had an impromptu conversational English class with four of the students. Using postcards, I told them about Alaska. I could tell they couldn't totally comprehend a land of ice and snow (northern lights were beyond any comprehension) but they were fascinated with the pictures anyway. When we finished discussing Alaska, they brought out a picture book about India and we discussed pictures with which they were familiar. The last part of our visit was playing “Indian games”, which I always lost because they conveniently didn't tell me all the rules. It was hilarious.

Back at the guest house, we quickly showered and went out to the restaurant we
visited our first week in India. This was the final farewell dinner. We had an excellent Indian dinner which included tandoori chicken, garlic naan bread, spicy
fried cauliflower, vegetable curry, and rice. Indian cuisine consists of so many dishes, I could not learn them all this trip. Hopefully, I'll be inspired to cook up a spicy Indian dish every once in a while in my northern abode and think of the warm hospitality I experienced while in Chennai.

Upon our arrival back at the guest house, Katie and Claudia found two students from Grace waiting for them to give them a thank-you letter. Obviously, Katie and Claudia's presence at Grace School touched these students enough to make them to want to make the extra effort to write a letter and wait at the guest house for them to return from dinner in order to deliver it.

Too soon, it was time for Katie and Joelle to leave for the airport. At the

beginning of this trip, there were 10 volunteers, now we are down to four. As my time draw near to leave, I wonder what it was that I contributed. Would the sand have been sifted at the construction site without me? Probably, eventually. Would the students at Grace have learned English without me? Yes. The hospital would have survived just fine without my days of observation. And the children at SEAM would have spread themselves out between nine volunteers instead of ten. So what can I tell others who are contemplating a trip with Global Volunteers what is the purpose of volunteering?

First, no one person is indispensable, nor should be as a program cannot survive if it is dependent on only one person. However, a steady stream of dedicated groups of people can truly make a difference in community selected projects. Secondly, while a program may not be dependent on one person, that one person can truly make a good or bad impressiion on the community. If by smiling politely at the grocery, or patiently waiting in line at the copy shop I can make a favorable impression and my country is viewed in a better light by even one person, I think that is worth the trip. Finally, I believe that the first step in making the world a better place is by first making a change within our own selves. Volunteering provides a great opportunity of personal growth, and by making ourselves better people we are better able to effect change in those around us.

Suellen