Team 118 - Oct.
6-20, 2012
Time is a
priceless gift
Arrived in
Chennai in the evening—Stephen (Raja)
was there to meet me at the airport along with his brother (the “real
Stephen”), who will be the driver as
needed. It was a bit of a drive to the
house from the airport. Once there, it
didn’t take long to settle into my upstairs room. I met Sheeba, Stephen’s wife and their son,
Roshan, who is 4-years old. They stay on
the lower level of the home where the team meeting area is also located when on
site. The remaining evening was just a
brief time of greeting with a light meal already for me. I am a team of 1.
The next day was Sunday and later in
the AM, we met to discuss the various
projects; have a little Tamil language lesson; go over Global Volunteer rules; goals for my 2
weeks and general housekeeping information.
The cook is Rani and the caretaker/watchman is Barnabus.
We sorted
through my donations and as I had been in India for some pre-project travel,
I also did some laundry. Later in the
afternoon, we went to SEAMS, which is one of the project sites. The children were very polite, enthusiastic. They enjoyed showing me around and also
introduced themselves and sang a song for me.
Sunday evening, we walked to a local restaurant for our supper.
Monday. Oct
8, 2012
The ripples of a pebble travel far
My first
full day as a volunteer. Rani’s
breakfast as usual was filling. Assisi
Illam, was the destination of the AM to help at a day-care for 2-4 year old
children in the neighborhood. The kids
are quite active and most were very happy to interact/see visitors. There were a few that held back. Singing, playing, and a snack time followed
by toilet time were the activities of the AM.
So much energy the children have and so much curiosity.
After lunch,
Stephen drove me to Grace
School . My charges for the week are 4th
and 5th graders---45 minutes with each group. One quickly realizes that the skill level is
quite variable even in a group of 3-4 children, so there is an added challenge
of helping those with lower skills while not boring the ones with higher
reading/math skills. Enthusiasm is not
a problem.
There is prep/break
time between each project, and it does come in handy for re-energizing and
focusing. My later afternoon was spent
back at SEAMS---30 minute sessions with 2 students each session. Again, there is a challenge to keep each
learning at his/her level---but much easier than when managing 3-6 at once.
Meals
continue to be quite filling and tasty—usually rice and then some chutney and
vegetable; meat for the main meals;
fruit always available. Fry
breads of various types are also served regularly. The spices aren’t too strong but definitely
give you a taste of Indian cuisine.
The “shower”
at the end of this first full day was welcome with the day’s heat—only cold
water available. The bed has mosquito
netting over it, and so far I’ve not noticed many/much in the way of
mosquitos. The fan and air conditioning
in the room when occupied is also welcome with the heat.
Wednesday.
Oct 10, 2012
“To the world you may be one person,
but to one person you may be the world”—author unknown
The
mid-point of my first week I’m starting
to get into a routine. The children have
plenty of enthusiasm and energy along with smiles. My time at Assisi Illam with the younger
children—singing, playing, reading and helping with toileting/hygiene. Lunch and break before going to Grace to
work with the 4th and 5th grades on math and
reading/writing skills; break and then time at SEAMS again working with various
ages in groups of 2 on reading/math skills.
I’m finding
my way to the local grocery store at times to get a bit of chocolate or some
Diet Coke. It is just around the corner
basically, so it is not a far walk.
During the cooler parts of the day, I will occasionally go to the roof
to enjoy the breezes and change of scenery.
I am getting more comfortable with lesson planning and “back-up”
planning as well.
There is no
going hungry here with Rani’s cooking.
Roshan is full of energy and loves Thomas the Train and Tom & Jerry
shows, so I will join him in watching those at times in the evening. There are power outages at different times
throughout the city, so my class time is
such that I arrive as power returns for some sites and I generally am not
“home” during the outage at the guest house.
Friday, Oct
12, 2012
Smiles are communicative in any
language
My first
full week has come to a close. I’m
finding the children’s enthusiasm and smiles quite energizing as I continue to
hone my “teaching” skills . Learning
the names of some of the children has been somewhat successful---with so many,
it is a challenge.
Rice or noodles
are a diet staple; meat is generally chicken---although we’ve had some fish and
beef. All the meals have been quite
tasty. Thursday night, we went to the
big shopping area in Chennai---I bought some fabric and this afternoon, Sheeba
and I went to the lady’s tailor for measuring and fitting---my outfit will be
ready early next week.
Each evening
there is time to discuss the day---thoughts, concerns, problems; also
discussion of the upcoming activities.
I also try to spend a little time emailing back home.
Weekend, Oct
13/14, 2012
“Do unto others as you would have
them do unto you”
Saturday,
Stephen drove me to Kanchipuram for visiting of 4 of the temples there. Unlike the car used during the week, this one
had air conditioning. Driving is such
an adventure here----how any one avoids accidents is mind-boggling at
times. Seeing livestock on city streets
is becoming less novel; hearing horns beeping is nearly constant. Stephen does an excellent job getting one
from point “A” to “B”. The other big
thing to do at Kanchipuram is silk shopping, but I had done enough of that on
my pre-project travels, so we returned to “home” early afternoon.
It was a
quiet Saturday of reading, writing, cross-stitching and just relaxing; also a
little walk. Sheeba, Roshan and Stephen were out for the
evening to a birthday party---I had the option to go but decided a quiet
evening “at home” was in order. Rani
made sure I had food available for supper when I was ready.
Sunday was a
tour of Chennai sites---Thomas the apostle sites, the museum and a drive by the
beach. As last Sunday, we had our
evening meal at the restaurant not far from the house—Anjappar. And then it was time to prepare for the
coming week of “work”.
Monday, Oct
15, 2012
Behind every cloud is a rainbow
The start of
another week---a hearty breakfast by Rani of hard boiled egg, chutney and I was
ready to face the day. Today, I spent
the morning at St. Thomas
Hospital helping Sister Metilda
and the other staff working with children with a variety of chronic
conditions—autism and cerebral palsy were the main ones I saw this day and
what I would generally call
developmental delays of various forms/degrees. I was asked to work with 2 different
children during the morning---first was a 5 year old boy with cerebral palsy;
then I had a 5-month old child with cerebral palsy. The family members were involved in the
sessions as well.
After lunch,
Sheeba and I went for a short walk in the neighborhood---in search of fresh
chicken as I wanted a picture of the places that sold such. Well, it was a new moon, so very few people
eat chicken on this day, so the shop was closed. We stopped at the grocery store instead. Sheebe also showed me some of the various
coins that are used in India
as well. The afternoon at Grace, I had
the 1st (2 students) and 3rd (3 students) during my
sessions. The later afternoon session
was at SEAMS as usual. The children
seemed a bit more squirrely today, but we still managed to get a little learning
done.
At supper,
we had poori (a fried in oil bread) with the chicken curry and vegetables. Later this week, I will have a cooking lesson
for some of the Indian foods. Ready or
not, I have a feeling this second week will go fast.
Wednesday, Oct
17, 2012
Never underestimate the power of
touch
Midweek of
my last week in India ---and
the day was a bit different from most. I
started out getting up early, so that Stephen could drive me to the wholesale
flower/vegetable/fruit market to take in the sights/sounds/scents. It was quite busy and rather interesting—very
colorful with the all the stands with products arranged for sale. Before I had gone to the market, I’d thrown
clothes in the laundry and planned to hang them when home, but the rain showers
came---so they were hung in my room.
With the rains,
some of the children didn’t come for their therapy time at the hospital, so
there were fewer children—little Teje (5 months) was there, so I worked with
him until he needed a nap—then I led some stretching for the adults. The third and first graders at Grace
continue to be enthusiastic and interested but their energy can sometimes be a
challenge to control.
I didn’t go
to SEAMS today---had the opportunity to go into Chennai to see some traditional
dance—Bharathanatayam. I even wore the
clothes to town that the tailor had finished for me. The costumes, dance and music were all quite
interesting—it started a little later than advertised, and so we started home about 7:45PM. The traffic and rain made it a very long,
slow drive home---9:30 PM when arrived home.
Sheeba and Stephen had waited supper for me.
A very full
day but interesting---rain definitely changes the activity/pace of life
here. Tomorrow I will have the chance
for cooking with Sheeba and Rani during
the day. Depending on the rains,
classes may or may not occur at schools, as they call holiday when rains are
bad.
Friday, Oct
19, 2012
“Don’t cry because it is over, smile
because it happened” Dr. Seuss
My last full
day at Chennai working with the children.
There has been a lot of rain the last couple of days which has altered
schedules and the children available to work with. The hospital children did not have any
sessions yesterday AM due to the rain, so I had cooking lesson with Rani and Sheeba. There were fewer students at Grace as well;
spent more time at SEAMS in the evening working with the children there.
Today the
rains continue. I was surprised when
most of the children were at St.
Thomas Hospital
for therapy. I split my time between the
little baby Teje and the older child Harish.
When it was time to say good-by, Sister Matilda and other staff gave me
hugs and wished me well. Before coming
home, we also stopped at Assisi Illam so that I could say good-bye to the
children and staff/adults there and Sister Rose.
There were
children missing at Grace
School again today due to
the weather, so I had some blended classes but seemed to keep all busy with
tasks. Again there were good-byes to
say as the day ended. At SEAMS, after
doing some lessons with a couple of the boys, all the children presented a
little “program” for me—singing and some dancing; each came up to say their
thanks and good-byes and I was presented with a lovely card they had all
signed. Good-byes are never easy, even
when you’ve only met/known people for a short time.
Supper was
served in traditional style on banana leaves----and I even ate traditional
style with my fingers. So many
memories/experiences these last couple of weeks!! One can only hope/pray that the seeds
started/nurtured will continue to flourish and grow.
Tanya